When you were younger, did you set an ideal age to marry?

==>> Nope! Honestly, I didn’t even wish to get married. My neighbor and some of closest friend thought I will never get married because I don’t go out on a date and I don’t have some sort of crush or Bf. In fact I make fun to the boys that shows special attention to me. But then when I turned older, all the nega concept I had about marriage and stuff changed. It seems like life is so boring with out someone to share with. Back when I was applying for a teaching position in Cebu City Division, one of the question was, How do you see yourself 10 years from now? Well, of course that’s an interview for a job so i answered that 10 years from now i probably have my own family and my own house blah blah blah.

I started dating when I was 25, but I wasn’t comfortable with it. I don’t like seeing these guys after one date. I had few guys that I was in relation with, but not the serious kind of relationship. It was like more than friends but less than lover kindda thing. I did not consider this guy as possible lifetime partner. So, they come and go until I decided to try the virtual dating. I set an age limit to myself that if I turned 30 years old and I am still single, I will probably go with the baby. It means no plan of getting marriage, just want a baby. I feel gaga with that whirlwind virtual relationship but not enough to put direction in my happy go lucky no direction life. Until I met my husband through virtual dating site. He came to my life when I was almost 30 years old and had the motto Come what may.